The Great Pretending: When Joy Becomes a Costume
“While they rehearse happiness, the Lone Wolf listens for truth beneath the noise.” December arrives dressed like a festival—sparkling lights, curated smiles, carefully rehearsed rituals. But beneath the surface, something quieter moves. A tension. A fracture. A truth no one wants to look at too long. Most people go through this month like actors trapped in a script written generations ago. They call it tradition. But truthfully? It’s survival. Perform joy. Perform connection. Perform meaning. Because to stop performing even for a moment means confronting what’s missing… or what was never there. Yet the Lone Wolf refuses to join the masquerade. He sees the flickers behind the eyes, the exhaustion folded into every forced laugh, the loneliness wrapped in tinsel and tied with a bow. He sees a world celebrating while quietly collapsing under its own weight. Not to judge it— but to understand it. December invites the pack to hide behind lights, but the Lone Wolf knows: The shadow ...